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Circle of Friends for the Dying actively promotes events that give people the opportunity to explore their feelings about death. We feel that knowledge is power, which can bring great relief during a time of powerlessness. We can’t control our dying, but we can explore ways to face it so that the choices available to us become meaningful options.

Death Cafes
One such event series is our monthly Circle of Friends Death Cafés which supports increased awareness of death in order to help people make the most of their finite lives. Death Cafés are open to, and respectful of, people of all communities and belief systems. A Death Café is a group-directed conversation of death with no agenda, objectives, or themes. It is a discussion group rather than a grief support or counseling session. The meetings are free, but we ask you to register in advance.

  • Virtual (Zoom) Death Cafes
    We hold virtual death cafes on the 18th of each month. Click here for more information.
  • In-person Death Cafes
    We will hold in-person death cafes regularly each month, in the home at 100 Wurts Street, Kingston NY. Stay tuned for more details.

Life Matters
Life Matters is a new event series that we offer in-person in our home at 100 Wurts Street, Kingston NY. We advocate for the re-balancing of life and death by hosting this monthly series of programs for the public to examine perspectives on death and dying. The Lancet Commission on the Value of Death imagines “a new vision of how death and dying could be. The five principles are: the social determinants of death, dying, and grieving are tackled; dying is understood to be a relational and spiritual process rather than simply a physiological event; networks of care lead support for people dying, caring, and grieving; conversations and stories about everyday death, dying, and grief become common; and death is recognized as having value.” Life Matters addresses such possibilities by welcoming various speakers to present issues and social concerns for the living. We request that you register for these in-person events, due to the size of the location.

Other Events & Gatherings
In the past, CFD has hosted other provocative speaking engagements in the Hudson Valley region. We held a day-long seminar at HealthAlliance Hospital in Kingston, New York, with Stephen Jenkinson, author of Die Wise and Come of Age among other titles. Jenkinson, also a teacher, a farmer, and an activist in what he calls “the death trade,” spoke of his experiences in Toronto hospitals where his job was to counsel terminal patients and ease their way to accepting death. And we’ve responded to the interests of Death Café participants by inviting pertinent speakers to present brief talks before each Death Café begins. We’ve hosted Sharon DiCarlo of Hudson Valley Hospice Foundation; CFD co-founder Laurie Schwartz who talked about homes for the dying and our project, Circle Home; Dr. Maggie Carpenter of Nightingale Medical in Gardiner; and Jo Scari, former CFD board member and licensed mortician to talk on securing one’s LGBTQ identity in death among many other fascinating presentations.

And we occasionally throw parties, like the Day of the Dead dance and fundraiser held at BSP in Kingston and Circlestock, a benefit concert and dance held at The Colony in Woodstock, New York. Let us know how we can contact you when things are happening! Because we are continuing to develop new events, please visit often or be notified of future events by signing up here.

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Healthy Ulster Radio Interview with CFD!

Healthy Ulster Radio

Circle of Friends for the Dying has made Ulster County a leader in the death-preparedness movement in New York State. Learn about its vision, healthy attitudes about preparedness, and how to take your place in the ancestral continuum of life. Tune in to meet Barbara Sarah, CFD Co-Founder, and long-time CFD Supporter and Advisory Council… Read More »Healthy Ulster Radio Interview with CFD!

Choices & Wishes: Advance Care Planning Workshop

Zoom

PSA: Choices & Wishes: Advance Care Planning Workshop This Advance Care Planning workshop will provide an overview of the Health Care Proxy, Living Will and MOLST documents and will help you to define your end-of-life wishes regarding medical treatment. To register, please call the Oncology Support Program at 845-339-2071 or email elise.lark@hahv.org

Death Cafe this Tuesday, Jan. 19th

Death Cafe returns to the Hudson Valley for the 69th time for our 9th virtual gathering via the interweb! Last year people from all over the country  joined our virtual death cafe with folks logged in to connect with each other and share their ideas and concerns about dying and death.   Plus, we’ve teamed… Read More »Death Cafe this Tuesday, Jan. 19th

Death Cafe this February!

Death Cafe returns to the Hudson Valley for the 70th time for our 10th virtual gathering via the interweb! Last year people from all over the country  joined our virtual death cafe with folks logged in to connect with each other and share their ideas and concerns about dying and death.   Plus, we’ve teamed… Read More »Death Cafe this February!