Full Circle: A conversation about living and dying
In our modern culture, we don’t sit around a fire and repeat the tales of our ancestors. Many of us are no longer members of a nuclear family or a tight community. The effect of not belonging to such a group is that we’ve become isolated as individuals. We don’t feel related. We don’t get to know each other as well as former generations did and–social media aside–we are not known in that familiar sense. We live and die relatively unknown.
Death is the great unknown. Dying, however, can be observed and discussed and reported on. Dying can be shared and comforted. Dying can be approached with intention and awareness, the idea being to fill the process with compassion and to live as fully as possible in the meantime. Every living thing expires. While the cause of one’s death may be beyond control, how we think about dying and how we act in the face of death are up to us. We have choices. This conversation is meant to explore those choices from as many angles as possible.
Even so, you might wonder why would anyone want to talk, read, or even think about death. Until coming face-to-face with the cold fact of mortality, there often isn’t much conversation about this taboo subject. When someone’s death does disrupt our expectations of living on into the future, the meanings we give to life come into focus.
The very process of writing can cause memories to bubble up through your consciousness. Writing can bring new insights and clarity about how and why things happened the way they did and what it all means. Writing helps you to connect the dots. When you write your truth, you not only learn from the exercise, you also contribute your valuable perspective to others–which is what relatedness is all about.
The most important aspect of dying and death that you can write about is your personal story. This is an opportunity for you to describe your experiences and express your feelings. Put yourself into the conversation. We invite you to join us in Full Circle and tell us your story. Submissions can be sent to: cfdblogemail@gmail.com.