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Circle of Friends for the Dying actively promotes events that give people the opportunity to explore their feelings about death. We feel that knowledge is power, which can bring great relief during a time of powerlessness. We can’t control our dying, but we can explore ways to face it so that the choices available to us become meaningful options.

Death Cafes
One such event series is our monthly Circle of Friends Death Cafés which supports increased awareness of death in order to help people make the most of their finite lives. Death Cafés are open to, and respectful of, people of all communities and belief systems. A Death Café is a group-directed conversation of death with no agenda, objectives, or themes. It is a discussion group rather than a grief support or counseling session. The meetings are free, but we ask you to register in advance.

  • Virtual (Zoom) Death Cafes
    We hold virtual death cafes on the 18th of each month. Click here for more information.
  • In-person Death Cafes
    We will hold in-person death cafes regularly each month, in the home at 100 Wurts Street, Kingston NY. Stay tuned for more details.

Life Matters
Life Matters is a new event series that we offer in-person in our home at 100 Wurts Street, Kingston NY. We advocate for the re-balancing of life and death by hosting this monthly series of programs for the public to examine perspectives on death and dying. The Lancet Commission on the Value of Death imagines “a new vision of how death and dying could be. The five principles are: the social determinants of death, dying, and grieving are tackled; dying is understood to be a relational and spiritual process rather than simply a physiological event; networks of care lead support for people dying, caring, and grieving; conversations and stories about everyday death, dying, and grief become common; and death is recognized as having value.” Life Matters addresses such possibilities by welcoming various speakers to present issues and social concerns for the living. We request that you register for these in-person events, due to the size of the location.

Other Events & Gatherings
In the past, CFD has hosted other provocative speaking engagements in the Hudson Valley region. We held a day-long seminar at HealthAlliance Hospital in Kingston, New York, with Stephen Jenkinson, author of Die Wise and Come of Age among other titles. Jenkinson, also a teacher, a farmer, and an activist in what he calls “the death trade,” spoke of his experiences in Toronto hospitals where his job was to counsel terminal patients and ease their way to accepting death. And we’ve responded to the interests of Death Café participants by inviting pertinent speakers to present brief talks before each Death Café begins. We’ve hosted Sharon DiCarlo of Hudson Valley Hospice Foundation; CFD co-founder Laurie Schwartz who talked about homes for the dying and our project, Circle Home; Dr. Maggie Carpenter of Nightingale Medical in Gardiner; and Jo Scari, former CFD board member and licensed mortician to talk on securing one’s LGBTQ identity in death among many other fascinating presentations.

And we occasionally throw parties, like the Day of the Dead dance and fundraiser held at BSP in Kingston and Circlestock, a benefit concert and dance held at The Colony in Woodstock, New York. Let us know how we can contact you when things are happening! Because we are continuing to develop new events, please visit often or be notified of future events by signing up here.

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Death Café Online – March 18, 2024 

Click here to register Registration in advance for this free event is required. After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the Zoom meeting. Bookmark that email or make note of the registration link on your calendar. ABOUT THIS EVENT: Welcome! We have held 100+ Death Cafés in the Hudson Valley,… Read More »Death Café Online – March 18, 2024 

Life Matters: The REST program, a conversation with Judith Bromley

Circle Home, 100 Wurts St, Kingston NY, United States

Part of our series of Perspectives on Living Well, we are honored to have Judith Bromley, MS, RN from the Ulster County Office for the Aging join us for conversation and refreshments. There is no fee to attend, but registration is required. For more information about the program, click here. If interested in attending, please… Read More »Life Matters: The REST program, a conversation with Judith Bromley

The Art & Soul of Comfort Food

Tilda's Kitchen Kingston, NY

In an effort to make death literacy aspirational and fun, Bevival has planned a very special dinner party to engage both your senses and sense of heritage. What better way to accomplish this than by pairing amazing food with electrifying table conversation! So to help us all talk about death differently, Liza Schoenfein, food writer,… Read More »The Art & Soul of Comfort Food

Death Café Online – April 18, 2024 

Click here to register Registration in advance for this free event is required. After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the Zoom meeting. Bookmark that email or make note of the registration link on your calendar. ABOUT THIS EVENT: Welcome! We have held 100+ Death Cafés in the Hudson Valley,… Read More »Death Café Online – April 18, 2024 

Dealing with Death Artfully

Circle Home, 100 Wurts St, Kingston NY, United States

Linda Mary Montano and Katie Todd present a workshop designed to safely explore our relationship with death. Hosted by Barbara Sarah, co-founder of Circle of Friends for the Dying. Participants will write and share their own obituaries and creatively play with their own death. More details to be revealed at the workshop! Cost is on… Read More »Dealing with Death Artfully

Life Matters: Perspectives on Death and Dying with Nigel Lester, MD

Circle Home, 100 Wurts St, Kingston NY, United States

We are happy to welcome Nigel Lester, MD to discuss understanding the delirium and confusion that can occur at end of life. Nigel trained in psychiatry at University College London and St. Vincent’s Hospital in New York City, and was formerly on faculty in the Department of Psychiatry at Washington University School of Medicine. Nigel… Read More »Life Matters: Perspectives on Death and Dying with Nigel Lester, MD

Death Café Online – May 18, 2024 

Click here to register Registration in advance for this free event is required. After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the Zoom meeting. Bookmark that email or make note of the registration link on your calendar. ABOUT THIS EVENT: Welcome! We have held 100+ Death Cafés in the Hudson Valley,… Read More »Death Café Online – May 18, 2024 

In-person Death Café June 1, 2024

Marbletown Community Center 3564 Main St, Stone Ridge, NY, United States

At Marbletown Community Center 3564 Main Street Stone Ridge, NY 12484 Returning by popular demand! An In-Person CFD Death Café, hosted by the Holistic Health Community! All welcome!    No admission!   Light refreshments! CFD Death Cafés are gatherings of people, often strangers, where we eat cake, drink tea or coffee, and confidentially have a… Read More »In-person Death Café June 1, 2024

Life Matters: Myths About Dying with Dr Robert L. Gram

Circle Home, 100 Wurts St, Kingston NY, United States

Often our understanding of dying is predicated on cultural constructs of the process. Perhaps the most significant and lasting myth is that dying is evolutionary, involving five sequential stages: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance. The theory was formulated by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross in her seminal work, "On Death and Dying," published in 1970. Increasingly, the author… Read More »Life Matters: Myths About Dying with Dr Robert L. Gram

Death Café Online – June 18, 2024 

Click here to register Registration in advance for this free event is required. After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the Zoom meeting. Bookmark that email or make note of the registration link on your calendar. ABOUT THIS EVENT: Welcome! We have held 100+ Death Cafés in the Hudson Valley,… Read More »Death Café Online – June 18, 2024